What should I do? Help me please?

[CorrinneS]

Hello everyone!!I need your help! This is very complicated but I need some advice from people other then my friends. Okay so I started dating a guy about four months ago and everything was going great. Until i went on a vacation to Mexico. You see I am very against pot and I told my boyfriend that I would never date him if he kept smoking, so he promised he would stop. About 3 months into the relationship I went to Mexico, when I returned I found out 3 weeks later that he began smoking again. He claimed it was for his headaches, which I knew all along have been very debilitating. He promised he would stop if the headaches stopped. So we went and got him a cat scan and the doctor said he could not see anything wrong. I can to the conclusion that he might need glasses but he still has not made an appointment. I eventually compromised with him, but previous to that I made a list (I know bad move) of all the things I love about him and all the things I did not like. He found the list. Lets just say he was beyond upset but I was able to get him to stay at my house and I had thought we worked everything out until the next day when he realized I took the list back, who wouldnt after they saw how much it hurt him? The list severely hurt him because he was never confident in himself from the start, so now he says I am too good for him. I went home for a week and during this time he called and said we needed to go on a break, which was ridiculous considering I like 5 hours away. Anyways, I said okay but the next day he talked to me on facebook and said that he still loved me and wanted to talk when I got back to school. When I returned he bailed on me to go to a party saying it would ruin his night because he would be hurt the whole time. So he suggested he would come see me the next day, fine, but he never showed up and did not even have the decency to text/call me. I wrote a letter saying 125 reasons why I love him, which I was going to give to him when I saw him but I think I am going to put it in his locker. We are in University and College so I know it may sound juvenile but that is what has been suggested to do.So what do you think?Should I give up even though I love him beyond belief? Which he has never believed meor should I try to get back together with him?Thank you!

[Kala]

Personally i don't understand what the big deal is with a guy smoking a little weed now and again- especially if he does have chronic headaches... probably keeps him in a good mood as well.but whatever, that's just me.